Navigating Two Worlds: Life as an Indian-American in Jersey City
Lakshmi Garg
Growing Up Between Cultures
Growing up in Jersey City, I’ve always felt like I’m living between two worlds. My parents, who immigrated to the United States from India, raised me with traditional values and customs that were deeply rooted in their homeland. But at the same time, I was surrounded by the vibrant cultural landscape of an urban American city.
Family Dynamics and Expectations
As a child, I remember feeling pressure from my parents to attend traditional Indian weddings, where I would be expected to wear a sari and perform certain cultural rituals. But as I grew older, I began to crave more modern experiences with my friends, complete with champagne toasts and Western wedding traditions.
Forming My Own Path
It wasn’t until I started college that I realized I had the freedom to choose between these two worlds. I began attending events on campus that celebrated diversity and inclusivity, where I met people from all walks of life who shared my passions and values. And although it was scary to leave behind the safety net of family traditions, I knew that this new world would allow me to forge my own path.
The Power of Food in Bringing People Together
One of the most significant ways Jersey City has influenced my identity is through its food scene. Growing up in a neighborhood with so many different cultures, I learned to appreciate the rich flavors and aromas of international cuisine. From Indian curries to Middle Eastern falafel, our city’s culinary landscape is a true reflection of its diversity.
But what I love most about Jersey City’s food scene is its ability to bring people together. Whether it’s a family dinner at one of the many authentic eateries on Van Vorst Park or a night out with friends at a trendy rooftop bar, the food in this city has a way of breaking down barriers and forging connections.
Resisting Expectations and Creating My Own Story
As an Indian-American woman, I’ve faced racism and microaggressions that often go unnoticed or ignored by people who don’t understand my experiences. But despite these challenges, Jersey City has taught me that there are ways to resist and subvert these expectations. Whether it’s through activism, education, or community organizing, we have the power to challenge the narratives that have been imposed upon us and create our own stories of identity and belonging.
A City Where Cultures Blend Together
In many ways, I believe that this is what makes living in Jersey City so unique – it’s a city where cultures blend together and traditions are constantly evolving. As an Indian-American woman, I’ve learned to navigate these complexities with a sense of curiosity and openness, always seeking out new experiences and connections that deepen my understanding of myself and the world around me.
Conclusion
Living as an Indian-American in Jersey City has been a journey of self-discovery and growth. It’s a city where cultures collide and traditions are reborn, and I’m grateful to call it home.